Hello everyone here is the list so far.

meatballs (2 families committed to this)

Plates

Drinks

Dessert

Meat pie

cake

caesar salad

macaroni salad

southern style mac and cheese

chips

soft drinks 

water

pasta (maybe)

tatter tot casserole

nachos and dip

dessert platter

chicken fried rice

Tray of Sandwiches

Chicken Wings

Devils Eggs & Vegetables

Spaghetti and Meat Sauce